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Can guys and girls be friends? (1 Viewer)

Can a guy and girl be friends?

  • Yes. They can be friends.

    Votes: 79 81.4%
  • No. One will develop feelings.

    Votes: 18 18.6%

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|Fever| Bob_o

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I say they can be friends. I also think that distance and time play a large factor. If a guy and a girl are together in close quarters for a long period of time I would bet someone would eventually develop feelings.
 

|Fever| Still

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My take on the whole thing is like this:

Yes, it is absolutely possible for opposite genders to be "Just Friends" It's just how you go about things. Obviously if a person is a flirt, it is a lot harder view one another as friends after a while, because the flirt unintentionally leads them on. I sometimes have a problem with that, since I am an incredibly out going person and I love talking to people. So what has helped me is being conscious of how I approach people and to make sure I don't say things that could unintentionally lead people on. Of course when someone also says that they just want to be friends, but have ulterior motives, such as; Getting in your pants, making a move, or trying to date you, then of course it's a lot harder. It takes both sides to have an equal understanding and to set boundaries.
 

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My answer is yes, even though i probably know where this is coming from. The situation is kinda awkward i'd like to help but i can't nor should.
 

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I have a lot of female friend's who I've never developed relationships with so it's always possible for a guy and a gril to be friend's.
 

|Fever| Leo

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I say they can be friends. I also think that distance and time play a large factor. If a guy and a girl are together in close quarters for a long period of time I would bet someone would eventually develop feelings.

Nope, Not for everyone :p
 

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I think so, definitely. It just depends on what they both want. I never understood why guys shy away from having girl friends. Even if she's not into you, she's got friends ;)
 

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Of course they can! Especially if the guy is totally clueless and doesn't realize why all sorts of girls hang around him. Not that I know anything about that of course, I was NEVER that stupid in high school... ;) Embarrassing to look back on that now. LOL
 

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I really don't see a reason why that shouldn't be possible. That doesn't mean there are some common pitfalls in there of course.
 

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